A goal is a direction, not a destination. The feeling of transformation we expect comes not from reaching a point on the map, but from who we become on the journey. By shifting from a "finish line" mindset to a "milestone" mindset, we can integrate our achievements and find meaning in the climb itself.
Billy Lahr returns to The Prestigious Initiative for a deeply honest conversation about living in the in-between. After 21 years as a teacher and dean, Billy stepped away from education—and four years later, he’s still experimenting, freelancing, promoting others, and wrestling with a question many high performers quietly carry: What if I don’t have a niche? In this episode, Billy and Chris explore what it means to be a generalist in a specialist-driven world, the tension between quitting and gritting, and the emotional toll of constant experimentation and rejection. They talk about identity, generosity, self-promotion discomfort, and why wanting to see others win can be both a gift and a challenge. This is a real conversation about purpose, resilience, and staying in the arena when the path forward isn’t clear yet. https://mindfulmidlifecrisis.systeme.io/jumpstartconvo
Do you feel like your inner world is a chaotic committee meeting? Where the voice of your inner critic, people-pleaser, and past critics all shout over each other every time you need to make a decision? In this impactful episode, we reframe that noise as a dysfunctional "Personal Board of Directors" you never chose. You'll learn how to conduct a quiet audit of these voices, kindly fire the unhelpful ones, and strategically hire a new, intentional council—including your inner "Strategic Architect" and "Compassionate Curator." Discover how to finally become the clear-headed CEO of your own mind and lead your life from a place of intention, not reaction.